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Stacey St John

by Stacey St. John  - August 7, 2025

Where Are Your Energy Leaks? How to Plug the Holes and Reclaim Your Power

Let’s get one thing straight: You’re not unmotivated, you’re not doing it wrong, and you definitely don’t need another productivity hack. If you feel constantly drained despite doing all the things, the problem isn’t you—it’s your unidentified energy leaks.

These are the hidden holes in your life that, little by little, drain away your fire, your focus, and your follow-through. Think about it: by the end of the day, you’re exhausted…but you feel like you’ve accomplished nothing. That’s what energy leaks do. Today, we’re going to find those holes, patch them up with powerful boundaries, and reclaim the vibrant energy that is rightfully yours.

The Calendar Leak: Is Your Schedule Sucking You Dry?

When you open your calendar, what happens to your body? Do you feel a wave of calm and control, or do your insides knot up in a state of “OMG, please make it stop!”? If you’re nodding along with the second one, your calendar is your first major energy leak.

An overcommitted schedule is a symptom of saying "yes" to too many things that aren't aligned with your genius. This isn't just about being busy; it’s about being stretched so thin that you lose your presence and your power. If your calendar feels like chaos, your energy will, too.

Your Quick Gut Check for Time Leaks

Before you accept another meeting or add another task, run it through this simple filter:

  • Does this really need to be done? (Is it essential or just a "nice to have"?)
  • Does this need to be done now? (Is it urgent or can it wait?)
  • Does this need to be done by me? (Is this in my zone of genius or can it be delegated?)

Just because a task lands on your plate doesn’t mean it belongs there. Start treating your time as your most valuable, non-renewable asset.

The People Leak: Are You Surrounded by Drains or Fountains?

Let’s be brutally honest: some people drain your energy. You know exactly who I’m talking about. The chronic complainers, the perpetual victims, the “can I just pick your brain for a second” crew.

You can love them dearly, but every time you interact, you walk away feeling depleted. Health experts at the renowned Cleveland Clinic define these people as “energy vampires” and confirm the real impact they can have on your emotional well-being. Protecting your energy isn't selfish; it's essential.

Remember this, because it’s a non-negotiable truth: Every misaligned “yes” to someone else is a “no” to your own peace and purpose.

Your energy is the fuel for your dreams. Stop giving it away to people who don't replenish it. Your peace is sacred—protect it.

The Work Leak: Are You Stuck in Exhaustion Mode?

Are you the CEO of your business or its most overworked employee? If you’re constantly micromanaging, cleaning up other people’s messes, and living in your inbox, you’re not leading. That’s exhaustion dressed up as productivity, and it's one of the biggest energy leaks for entrepreneurs.

You doing every single thing in your business is a bottleneck, not a badge of honor.

The shift you need to make is from doer to visionary. You need to let go so you can rise up.

  • If it doesn’t require your unique genius, delegate it. Social media posts, scheduling, and initial client vetting can all be handled by a capable team member.
  • Set clear systems and expectations. When you communicate your methods and boundaries clearly from the start, you eliminate 90% of client pushback and cleanup work down the line.

Your magic isn’t meant to be buried under busywork. Delegate the tasks so you can dedicate your energy to the vision.

The Tech Leak: Is Your Phone Your Boss?

Now for the sneakiest energy thief of all: that glowing rectangle in your pocket. Your phone. With its endless notifications, doomscrolling rabbit holes, and distractions disguised as "research," it’s designed to steal your most valuable resource: your attention.

If the first thing you grab in the morning is your phone instead of your vision... that’s a massive energy leak, lady.

Reclaim your mornings and your focus. The first hour of your day sets the tone for everything. Use it to create, to think, to build, to expand. Do the deep, important work before the world has a chance to flood you with its shallow demands. Guard your attention like your future depends on it—because it absolutely does.

Your Energy Is Something You Protect, Not Just Manage

If you feel scattered, unmotivated, or stuck, it might not be a mindset problem at all. It might just be that your energy bucket is full of holes. When you patch these leaks, your power, presence, and clarity rush back in.

Protecting your energy is the foundation of protecting your purpose.

So, where do you start? Naming your biggest drain is the first step to reclaiming your power. Is it your time? Your tech? Your team? Your boundaries? Take a moment and journal it out.

Want to go deeper and get crystal clear on what’s really draining you?

Take the LIVE BIG Zones Quiz

This free assessment will help you find out where you are in your journey and how to shift from a zone of chaos into one of energy, clarity, and unstoppable momentum. Let’s patch those energy leaks and build a life that doesn’t just look good, but feels incredible.
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Stacey St John

Stacey St. John

Stacey is living proof that big dreams and bold moves can lead to incredible results. With a successful career in sales and corporate America, Stacey cannonballed into real estate with just $50,000 and turned it into a 7-figure portfolio in just a few years. Whew!

Now, she’s on a mission to show other women (including you!) how they can do the same with any dream, in any industry, or even their personal goals.

Stacey’s passion is all about lifting others up and enabling them with tools to create their best lives. She knows that dreaming big can feel scary, but she’s living proof that with the right guidance, some hard work, and a proven plan, those dreams can turn into reality.

Drawing on her years of not only business experience but a ton of mindset work – which honestly, can be harder to practice – Stacey now mentors women who are ready to take control of their future, break through barriers to finally get un-stuck, and design the life they’ve always dreamed of.

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